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The PAUSE Team on What’s Getting Us Through Lockdown 3.0

By January 12, 2021Features, Lifestyle

Getting through Lockdown...

Another year, another lockdown. With lockdown 3.0 in the UK now well underway, the mental and physical fatigue can get a little overwhelming at the best of times. With most of us well and truly over ‘zoom parties’ and banana bread, The PAUSE team have collated just some of the things that have been getting us through this tough time for your consideration below;

Johnson, Editor In Chief, PAUSE

Sanj, Contributing News Writer

  • Mindfulness – Mindfulness involves sitting silently, noticing your breathing and physical sensations and the sensations of things around you, and acknowledging your thoughts in a neutral way without judgement. Leading players — Headspace and Calm — offer a huge variety of pandemic-related resources allowing you to tackle feelings of loneliness, stress and anxiety.
  • Educate yourself on race – The #BlackOutTuesday movement was created by two Atlantic Records executives who wanted to encourage black users to step away from social media, ‘a day to disconnect from work and reconnect with our community’ through ‘an urgent step of action to provoke accountability and change’. Stay accountable for your re-shares and retweet’s and take the time to read, listen and watch content from the likes of Reni Eddo-Lodge and more.
  • Host a games night – Fed up of yet another virual quiz? Organising a games night is a sure-fire way to keep the whole family or your friendship group entertained at the weekend. Set duties for each participant including: the ‘happy hour host’, ‘drinking games master’ and of course, the bingo host!

Samantha, Editor, PAUSE Her

  • Reading inspirational books
    The Go-Giver by Bob Burb & John David Mann
    Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker
    Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes
  • Making time to reconnect with old friends – Arranging video calls, phone calls, even texting, old friends. Living life in the fast lane can sometimes be detrimental to friendships, and a positive from 2020 has been rebuilding old bonds.
  • Taking up a hobby – I learnt how to make my own candles! I also did a few painting classes and a cocktail making class. I have a clay pottery class booked in and am looking for a few other activities to keep my creative flow energised.
  • Spring cleaning – I prepared nearly 20 bags for charity (The British Heart Foundation accept donations by post, and they cover the postage. They can collect large items too.) Alternatively, Thrift and FarFetch have teamed up. You can send your items to them to list and sell, with a percentage of proceeds going to your chosen charity and the rest you will receive in FarFetch credit to go towards your new purchases!
  • Hustle and start up a new business – Having a bit more time on your hands, you could push to gain another income stream. One thing that can be done from home, and we all have the tools for, is direct selling. I am not talking about illegal pyramid schemes, I am speaking of reputable businesses, that make up the thriving £2 billion home-based industry! According to the Direct Selling Association, there are more than 425,000 people in the UK working in direct sales, selling everything from makeup to jewellery and clothing. And with the aid of Instagram and other social media sites, it makes it easier to access your customers. In the first lockdown I set up an Arbonne business, and was promoted to District Manager with the success of the strategy I implemented. You answer to no-one, and work on your own watch. Other reputable companies are The Body Shop and Ann Summers.

Sonia, Contributing Writer

  • Long, long, walks, by myself
  • A self-soothing box – I was super cyclical about the idea at first but have been doing it for a few years now and it really helps. You basically can use an old shoe box or anything, and fill it with 5-10 small things you really, really love! It could be an old piece of jewellery, a note someone scribbled on a napkin… I have an almost empty bottle of perfume I love, a book of poetry and some hilarious sunglasses. The idea is when you’re feeling low or blue, it’s something physical for you to go to and open.. and use… and remember the little joys in life.

Amal, Junior Music Editor

  • Enrol in a free, short online course — supercharge your brain by choosing from hundreds of online courses & specialist organizations. (Futurelearn.com is good)
  • Self-care days — choose one day out of the week to prioritize self-care & being present. Whether it’s putting on a face mask or creating an at-home spa, recharge, relax and have a moment to yourself.
  • Create a vision board | list of goals — manifest & be optimistic. Create a visual or physical vision board or note down a goals list – no matter how big or small, as a reminder of what you wish to achieve.
  • Spring (clean) yourself up! — “I haven’t worn those in a while..” direct, declutter and/or donate. Organizing a wardrobe can often be therapeutic & allow the feeling of productivity and generosity. In with the new, out with the old.
  • I’m “rooting” for you — become a plant parent. Lockdown can feel like it stunts your growth, but that’s not the case for plants. Invest in a plant, nourish it, and watch it blossom. Caring for living things contributes to assertiveness, lowering anxiety, and the feeling of empowerment.

Rhys, Fashion Editor, PAUSE

  • Reading self-help books, novels and biographies of those I admire – a few include The Alchemist, A Man Thinketh, The Rules of Wealth, and the Reggie Yates Unseen: My Journey.
  • Binge-watching series – watching nostalgic tv shows and movies bring me a sense of belonging which also allows me to reminisce on the good times I once had whilst watching said media back then.
  • Good old fashion self-care – exfoliating my face, washing, conditioning and blow-drying my afro. I’ve become my own barber for the time being, so learning new crafts like this will be even handier if you’re a guy like me who enjoys going to the barber weekly.
  • Keeping in touch with a loved one – Maybe even bury the hatchet with those you have distanced from due to mutual disgruntled emotions.
  • My favourite – listening to Radio Stations like No Signal as well as whacking on a good ol’ R&B playlist. Music cures all pain, right?